The Action Step of Waiting

Waiting is a wonderful concept. It may sound counter-intuitive, but sometimes the action is simply sitting and waiting after you have done what you need to do with someone you love. When we wait and are patient; we recognize that it’s not what happens in our time that matters.

But the reason it can feel so uncomfortable for many of us to sit and wait is that we worry about not finding a partner, we worry about being alone (especially at the holidays), we worry we will never meet “the one.”

What I want to let you know is that when we sit back and wait, we actually allow good things to come to us. We create a window where the forces in the universe can actually deliver that emotionally available partner we are so looking forward to connecting with. When we step back and do nothing but wait, then we allow the universe to work. And I want to let you in on a pretty big secret: We don’t have to make anything happen to find and nurture the kind of relationship we really want—all we have to do is allow. We already know how to love naturally and love is our birthright!

Also, from a practical point of view, this is holiday time. Realize that responses slow in the last weeks of the year. If someone you care about hasn’t gotten back to you, or if all the dating you have been doing hasn’t “paid off” in the form of a new love, or if you haven’t heard from that ‘hottie’ you met last weekend, it may be because your task is just to sit and wait.

So sit back and wait, and enjoy yourself in a place of calm. Love will happen. Life will happen. You are a treasure and you deserve a partnership that deeply fulfills you. Let it come to you.

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