Are You a Love Hoarder?

Many people have trouble listening to stop signals in love relationships. It can be hard to listen to my ourselves and stop when we feel close to someone we are crazy about. We don't want the good feelings to stop.
But emotional availability knows there will always be a new love experience waiting to refill us when we need it. Love is everything; the whole universe is love. Love doesn’t just come from our partner. We have much love to give as well as to receive; however, sometimes we want to hoard the love.
We think we need to get as much as we can in relationships as fast as possible. We are afraid to let go of another person. We fear we may not ever be as full of love for them again as we are right now.

When we are full of love for our partner, it takes great courage to stop and let go a little. With practice, though, we see that stopping when we are full allows us more opportunities to experience our desires. Taking a baby step back from our love lets us refill ourselves anytime. Then we experience the magic of feeling our desire well up!

Today, know there will be a fresh new love experience waiting for you as soon as you feel your desire for your partner surface again.And heed your own stop signals for fun and pleasure! Feel free to let me know how it feels.
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Developing A Prosperity Consciousness Around Relationships

        A lot of times, all we hear about in the media is the lack of available partners. But, as a matter of fact, statistics show that today there are more single people in the world than ever before. Scarcity is simply not realistic. You have the chance to pick with ease - especially if you do a little mental reconceptualizing.
        My question to you is: What would it look like to develop a prosperity consciousness around partnership? What would it be like to think that there are more than enough potential life-mates out there and that many wonderful potential partners would love to connect with you right now? 
       You may be ready to argue with me but I want to tell you a secret-there are!There are many people right now who want to date and mate a person just like you. You have the ability to choose with ease--you just may not know it or you may not recognize it.

Let me give you a few good examples and suggest a few great ways to meet them.

One way to gather your courage to interact with people in the world is to re-conceptualize socializing as a low-pressure activity. Take some of the pressure off. Many social clubs exist which are forums for low-pressure interaction. Sports teams, civic minded organizations, and spiritual or religious communities are also excellent places to meet people for conversation and activities.

         Another option is to pursue activities you love, areas you may be waiting to explore until that “someone special” comes into your life. I’ve seen this over and over. I had one client who wanted to sail. He got into it and was having such a great time that he almost didn’t notice two amazing women who were trying to get his attention. Smart guy—he finally got the message and is dating one of those ladies today.
         Another client of mine is a big fan of fine wine and she is having a great time attending social events. She even started organizing fundraisers and getting wineries to contribute pricey bottles to auction off for charity. Not only is she giving back but she tells me she’s met a whole crew of fun, single guys. Most importantly, she feels empowered and is doing something she loves.
         Reality all starts with belief--so make love comfortable for yourself by believing there are lots of people to connect with. Then you can interact with them and choose who really fulfills YOU!
          You deserve a great relationship-and as soon as you realize this in your heart, an emotionally available partner will realize it too. Then watch the love build and build!
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