Many people have trouble listening to stop signals in love relationships. It can be hard to listen to my ourselves and stop when we feel close to someone we are crazy about. We don't want the good feelings to stop.
But emotional availability knows there will always be a new love experience waiting to refill us when we need it. Love is everything; the whole universe is love. Love doesn’t just come from our partner. We have much love to give as well as to receive; however, sometimes we want to hoard the love.
We think we need to get as much as we can in relationships as fast as possible. We are afraid to let go of another person. We fear we may not ever be as full of love for them again as we are right now.
When we are full of love for our partner, it takes great courage to stop and let go a little. With practice, though, we see that stopping when we are full allows us more opportunities to experience our desires. Taking a baby step back from our love lets us refill ourselves anytime. Then we experience the magic of feeling our desire well up!
Today, know there will be a fresh new love experience waiting for you as soon as you feel your desire for your partner surface again.And heed your own stop signals for fun and pleasure! Feel free to let me know how it feels.
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