Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Taking Ourselves and Our Relationships So Seriously

What would it be like to wear your relationship like a loose garment?
Isn’t it boring to always to be worried about your issues 24/7? All that worry won’t help you make a relationship work. Realize that you are not powerful enough to influence any romantic situation by being overly serious about it. Everything is being worked out for the highest good.

Emotional availability is characterized by light-heartedness. If you imagine wearing your relationship like a loose garment, rather than a constricting piece of clothing, you can take some of the pressure off yourself.

Talking about entertainment, sporting events, the weather, trivia, and other news can be an antidote to the dilemma of heavy-heartedness. Emotional unavailability is characterized by an obsessive focus on how everything relates to the relationship; today make a choice to get out of yourself by talking to others. Then listen to them in return.

Today release all over-seriousness and let in the love of an emotionally available partner - yourself!
www.theemotionallyavailablepartner.com

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