My question to you is: What would it look like to develop a prosperity consciousness around partnership? What would it be like to think that there are more than enough potential life-mates out there and that many wonderful potential partners would love to connect with you right now?
You may be ready to argue with me but I want to tell you a secret-there are!There are many people right now who want to date and mate a person just like you. You have the ability to choose with ease--you just may not know it or you may not recognize it.
Let me give you a few good examples and suggest a few great ways to meet them.
One way to gather your courage to interact with people in the world is to re-conceptualize socializing as a low-pressure activity. Take some of the pressure off. Many social clubs exist which are forums for low-pressure interaction. Sports teams, civic minded organizations, and spiritual or religious communities are also excellent places to meet people for conversation and activities.
Another option is to pursue activities you love, areas you may be waiting to explore until that “someone special” comes into your life. I’ve seen this over and over. I had one client who wanted to sail. He got into it and was having such a great time that he almost didn’t notice two amazing women who were trying to get his attention. Smart guy—he finally got the message and is dating one of those ladies today. Another client of mine is a big fan of fine wine and she is having a great time attending social events. She even started organizing fundraisers and getting wineries to contribute pricey bottles to auction off for charity. Not only is she giving back but she tells me she’s met a whole crew of fun, single guys. Most importantly, she feels empowered and is doing something she loves.
Reality all starts with belief--so make love comfortable for yourself by believing there are lots of people to connect with. Then you can interact with them and choose who really fulfills YOU!
You deserve a great relationship-and as soon as you realize this in your heart, an emotionally available partner will realize it too. Then watch the love build and build!
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