Have you recently had a fuss with the person you have been dating. Did they ask you if you are pushing them away? At this point, instead of worrying what will happen, if the relationship will dissolve, think about your answer to their question. Are you really trying to push them away?
No matter what the answer is, you are still alright. Even if you are trying to push them away when you get triggered by something they do, you are still worthy of love.
It is so easy in relationships to take everything very seriously, and believe that the partnership is doomed when you have a fuss with someone you care about; but that is unrealistic. As humans, we are all flawed, and we will make mistakes sometimes, overreact sometimes, and fly off the handle sometimes.
The important thing is to apologize, own up to what was going on for you, and make a committment to handle things a bit more skillfully the next time there is a glitch.
The truth is you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. So relax and take things easy. Let the person you care about know you are sorry--and then move on. Life is too short to worry. Enjoy yourself, have fun and let loose a little. There is always a new opportunity to love waiting for you!
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