Tuesday, May 22, 2012

You Are A Great Catch!

Do you know what a great catch you are?

Do you know how lucky an emotionally available person would be to share time with you?

Do you understand that you are good enough for a great relationship right now?

If you answered yes to these questions, good for you.

If you cannot completely believe that these things are true about you, I want to tell you that they are. And if you don't believe them now, you can learn to see that they are the truth.

You are terrific. Any emotioanlly abvailable person would be lucky to have you as a partner. You are a great catch!

So I want to point out that the journey to knowing and claiming these truths for yourself is as important as the goal of sustaining a wonderful relationship. The journey to profound self-acceptance is worth all the time and energy it takes. And a interesting fact is that if you still haven't found the relationship "success" you are seeking, that might be because you still have the opportunity to love yourself more fully right now.

I know this may not be what you want to hear. You may want a quick fix, to get the 'brass ring' right now. I understand, But I also know how crucial it is to learn how amazing, worthwile and deserving you are right now - because then when you do meet someone available, you will be able to say, "Wow, they are so lucky to meet me." "They are so lucky to have a partner like me." "I am such a good catch."

This is not egotism, this is reality. And to know this to the center of your core is the great gift of this work. Love is your birthright, and you deserve it. Although it can be painful to really look at the root causes of what keeps you stuck in unsatisfying relationships, it truly is a great opportunity to get to the heart of the matter - and then to get beyond it!

Move on to an emotionally avaiable partner and share the richness of who you are in a fulfilling, harmonic relationship - the relationship of your dreams. Live and love and stop letting our self-hatred, shame and guilt hold you back. Get and keep the relationship you've always wanted. It all starts with you!

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