So let's talk practically about what happens if you are with someone who is not available--but are reluctant to take the plunge and let them go because of not wanting to be alone.
Well, its completely alright to do this; however, it will be more difficult to let in someone available if you are with an unavailable person. Not only will you be partnered, so that single energy that says 'I'm ready to meet someone great' won't be broadcasting, but you also will probably be consumed with the problems in the relationship with the unavailable partner.
I want to say that the real problem is fear. Fear of not getting what we want. Fear of being alone. We all deal with it all the time. It's debilitating.
Being emotionally available is about living and loving without so much fear. Of course, we are all going to become fearful from time to time. That is a reality. And fear can even be a good motivator.
But when we are so afraid to leave a toxic relationship, then we are hurting ourselves and the question becomes, "Why do I want to feel bad?"
It's worth asking this question and really listening to the answer.
You are an amazing person who deserves the best that love has to offer. You deserve an emotionally available partner. Hang in there and believe it because it is true. The love you dream of is just waiting for you to let go of your fear a little bit. And then, with that opening, an emotionally available partner can come into your life.
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