Thursday, August 4, 2011

The Brush-Off

Has someone given you the brush-off recently? We're you in communication or dating, and suddenly they fell off the side of the planet? Are you wondering if you should pursue this person, or at least check in to see if they are alive?
 
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you're in good company. It can be hard to know if you should give someone the benefit of the doubt, especially if you are a compassionate person.
 
However, if this person gave you the brush-off, I have to wonder if they are the best candidate for your affections. Truthfully someone who doesn’t have time for you (or even time to let you know they are OK) doesn't sound available.
 
Whenever you get brushed off, I think it is a perfect opportunity to take a step back and see what happens. The ball is in this person’s court now.
 
The hitch? Stepping back can be a bit hard, especially if you find this person very attractive.
 
But in the meantime, get back in the game. Go out; have fun; meet and greet. 
 
You deserve a great partner who has time to spend with you. It could be this person or it could be someone else you meet tonight. Enjoy. And remember how awesome you are. The partner you’re waiting for is out there longing for you as much as you long for them!

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